Beyond The Chaos
Join parent educator and obstetric social worker Gen Muir and mother of three Amy Gerard as they tackle the challenges of parenthood and answer listener questions on Beyond The Chaos. The podcast aims to reduce parent guilt, provide practical tips, and show parents they are not alone. It covers the hardest and weirdest aspects of parenting, offering support and relatable insights.
Episodes
"My Husband Is Uncomfortable With My Daughter Having A Boyfriend!"
Whether you have younger or older kids, chances are you'll be facing them having a boyfriend or girlfriend at some point. So what do we do when the feeling makes us uncomfortable? Gen and Amy unpack a question from a listen who's husband is uneasy with his daughter's relationship. Plus ingrown toenails, bedroom dance clubs, and cuddles before bed. Pre-order Gen's new book Why Kid's Need Boundaries
"Women Can Do It All, Just Not All At Once"
Amy has just been announced as the new host of KIIS breakfast radio, and is navigating what this career change means her family, and Gen has some sage advice based upon her own experiences. Pre-order Gen's new book Why Kid's Need Boundaries here: https://www.panmacmillan.com.au/9781761906817/ Join our Facebook group and have your say: https://www.facebook.com/groups/246445168215669 Leave your ques
ARFID In Children: More That Being A 'Picky' Eater
ARFID and trouble with eating is more that being 'picky', as most mums know, and can be hard to navigate. Gen delves into her personal experience for this listener question. Plus, some parenting highs and lows including a very successful teenage party and Gen and Amy's big career news. Pre-order Gen's new book Why Kid's Need Boundaries here: https://www.panmacmillan.com.au/9781761906817/ Join
The Bittersweet Feeling Of Your Kids Growing Up
One day your kids are holding your hand and calling you mummy, and the next they want to be dropped off on the corner so their friends don't see you. Our kid's growing up is inevitable, and comes with a whole host of feelings that Amy and Gen discuss in this episode. Pre-order Gen's new book Why Kid's Need Boundaries here: https://www.panmacmillan.com.au/9781761906817/ Join our Facebook group
Beyond The Chaos x Beyond The Bump: Why Kids Need Boundaries
In this special episode, we are joined by Sophie and Jayde from Beyond The Bump for a crossover episode! They keep Amy's seat warm while she's in Italy, and speak to Gen about everything to do with kids and boundaries, including some life-changing advice about what to do when things aren't working for mum. Follow Beyond The Bump here: https://www.instagram.com/beyondthebump.podcast/?hl=en Pre-orde
Playing, Learning, And The Pressure To Get Your Kid 'School Ready'
It seems like the pressure to get your kid ready to sit down at school and learn is getting earlier and earlier. So what is the ideal age, and should we be encouraging our kids to sit down and read and write before they've started school? Plus, our parenting highs and lows, from a 'runaway' kid to setting boundaries with your kids. Pre-order Gen's new book Why Kid's Need Boundaries here: http
The Real Reason Behind Your Kid's Mega Meltdown
Amy is back from Italy, and got home to a loving peaceful household. For about 30 seconds. Her kids melted down one by one, but Gen has the reason behind why your nice moments are 'ruined' by tantrums and fights. Pre-order Gen's new book Why Kid's Need Boundaries here: https://www.panmacmillan.com.au/9781761906817/ Join our Facebook group and have your say: https://www.facebook.com/groups/246
Do Your Kids Know How To Answer A Phone?
Do your kids answer the phone with a 'yep?' or a 'what?' instead of 'hello', and you're not sure why? Well, we have a theory. Plus, we hear from a listener who is worried about her daughter being too bossy and controlling in social settings. But is that really a bad thing? Pre-order Gen's new book Why Kid's Need Boundaries here: https://www.panmacmillan.com.au/9781761906817/ Join our Facebook grou
How Long Would You Leave Your Kids To Go On Holidays?
Every parent deserves the occasional child-free holiday, and this week Amy has jetted off to Italy. She's not going for very long but is already anxious about leaving her kids, but Gen has a story about her parents leaving her when she was 4 for a very long time... Plus, an update on Gen's lost suitcase! Pre-order Gen's new book Why Kid's Need Boundaries here: https://www.panmacmillan.com.au/97817
"I Have A Hyperactive Child, Is This 'Normal'?"
Lots of kids have extra energy, but sometimes hyperactivity can start being concerning. At what point is behaviour too disruptive for your child, and everyone else, and what do you do? Gen and Amy answer a listener question about this topic. Plus, Amy has a gross parenting fail, but a beautiful win. Pre-order Gen's new book Why Kid's Need Boundaries here: https://www.panmacmillan.com.au/9781761906
The Book That Has Divided The Country
It's an AMEN (featuring a new theme!) and Amy and Gen are discussing the new hit book Yesteryear, Amy's upcoming travel plans, and why Gen swears by a holiday hike. Pre-order Gen's new book Why Kid's Need Boundaries here: https://www.panmacmillan.com.au/9781761906817/ Join our Facebook group and have your say: https://www.facebook.com/groups/246445168215669 Leave your question for Gen and Amy here
The Heartbreak Of Your Child Saying And Doing Hurtful Things
Everyone has experienced their child acting out with their words and actions, but when is intervention needed? And what do you do? We hear from a worried listener who needs support, and Gen and Amy have some sage advice. Plus, Gen's nightmare situation in Melbourne, and how self care makes all the difference in the world. Join our Facebook group and have your say: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2
When Amy Called Gen For Parenting Advice
It's an AMEN episode! This week, Amy called Gen with a parenting dilemma of her own, and needed some level headed advice on whether punishing a kid for lying ever works. Join our Facebook group and have your say: https://www.facebook.com/groups/246445168215669 Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Email us at beyondthechaos@dm.org.au Get your pack of High Low Buffalo car
Different Kids, Different Rules? Parenting Siblings Individually
Is it inevitable that if you have more than one child, you will parent them differently? And how does that affect the kids, and the family dynamic? This is a common dilemma for our listeners, and today Amy and Gen hear from a parent experiencing this concern. Plus, Amy's got a fairy godmother in her life, and Gen's son does something that got him dubbed 'The Piggybank'. Join our Facebook group and
Getting On The Same Page As Your Partner with Matty J from Two Doting Dads
We have a very special guest on this episode! One half of Two Doting Dads, former Bachelor, and dad of 3 Matty J joins Gen and Amy on the show! In this bumper episode they speak about their highs and lows of the week, as well as answer a listener question about getting on the same parenting page as your partner. You can listen to Two Doting Dads here: https://www.twodotingdads.com/ Join our Facebo
Mum Guilt: Does It Ever Go Away??
On this week's AMEN, Gen and Amy discuss their perpetual mum guilt. Despite doing what feels like more than ever for our kids, why does it still feel like it's not enough? Join our Facebook group and have your say: https://www.facebook.com/groups/246445168215669 Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Email us at beyondthechaos@dm.org.au Get your pack of High Low Buffalo c
Teaching Your Child To Say 'No'
Do you struggle to instil in your child the ability to say 'no'? And when is the right time to draw a boundary? Gen and Amy hear from a listener struggling with this, but suspect this question goes a bit deeper than just saying no. Plus, Amy and Gen's wins and losses include an appointment f-up, a play and an outsourced blow dry. Join our Facebook group and have your say: https://www.facebook.com/
Why It Sometimes Feels Easier When Your Partner's Away
Do you find it easier or harder to manage your household when your partner is away? In this AMEN episode, Amy and Gen break down why life sometimes seems easier when their husbands travel. Join our Facebook group and have your say: https://www.facebook.com/groups/246445168215669 Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Email us at beyondthechaos@dm.org.au Get your pack of H
Separation Anxiety, Meal Prepping, and "I Hate You Mum"
In this bumper episode, Gen and Amy answer a question from a parent wondering how to manage separation anxiety in her child, and wonders if she's to blame. Plus, they discuss everything from plantar heel pain, to meal prepping, to kid's hurtful words. Join our Facebook group and have your say: https://www.facebook.com/groups/246445168215669 Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondt
A Vent About School Lunchboxes
It's an AMEN episode, and can we get an amen for how hard it is packing lunch boxes? Do your kids pack their own? Do they eat the food you give them? Will the cycle of bringing home uneaten food ever end? Jump in our Facebook group and let us know: https://www.facebook.com/groups/246445168215669 Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Email us at beyondthechaos@dm.org.au G
Do 'Time Outs' Ever Actually Work?
Time outs are a contentious subject; while they've been used to try and discipline children for a long time, do they ever actually work? Amy and Gen discuss a great listener question this week from a mum who is not sure. Plus, Amy has a cracker of a 'low' from her trip to Vietnam. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Email us at beyondthechaos@dm.org.au Get your pack of
"I'm A Motherless Mother": Reflections On Mother's Day
Amy and Gen are popping in your feeds for a quick Mother's Day reflection, with Amy dialling in from Vietnam. Will it be better than last year's disaster? Plus, it's Gen's first Mother's Day without her own mum. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Email us at beyondthechaos@dm.org.au Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself I
Why Your Child 'Pushing Your Buttons' Is Not What You Think
Have you ever thought, 'man my child just loves to push my buttons'? Most parents have at some point. Well, Gen has some thoughts around the idea of back chat and pushing buttons that might surprise you. Plus, Amy reckons the Tooth Fairy needs to lift her game. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Email us at beyondthechaos@dm.org.au Get your pack of High Low Buffalo ca
Why Your Child's Eye Health Is So Important
How much do you know about myopia? Or even what it is? It's super common in children, and can not only affect how children see the world, but their ability to learn and play. Today on the show we're joined by Margaret Lam, Head Optometrist at 1001 Optometry, to learn more about myopia. To find out more about 1001 Optometry's Magnif-eye tool, head to magnifeye.com.au Leave your question for Gen and
You Need To Be Having The Sex Conversation Earlier Than You Think
You're probably cringing at the thought of it, but we all know how important the 'where do babies come from' conversation is. But what age is appropriate, and what do you say? We hear from a listener grappling with this. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Email us at beyondthechaos@dm.org.au Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Y
Kids and Screens: Is It A Losing Battle?
Amy is back, and needs some help from Gen managing her kids and screens. Can you have different rules for different kids? Plus, Gen and Amy compare their very different school holidays. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Email us at beyondthechaos@dm.org.au Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's b
Managing Kids Who Use Harsh Words
Most kids go through a phase where they can use some really callous language, and while this is normal, it is shocking! Today, Gen answers a listener question about a little girl who can say some not very nice things. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Email us at beyondthechaos@dm.org.au Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Your
The Manosphere And Raising Boys (And Girls)
In this special A-GEN episode, Gen dives into some of the fears both parents of boys and girls have right now; The Manosphere and raising good boys. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Email us at beyondthechaos@dm.org.au Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People, Big Feelings' HER
Holidaying With Kids- It's Possible!
Amy has just gotten back from a family holiday to Bali and she not only survived, she thrived! Plus, Gen recounts the family holiday from hell where she almost died (apparently). Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People, Big Feelings' HERE Produ
The Heartbreak Of Having A Misunderstood Child
Today on the show, we hear a heartbreaking but all too common dilemma from a dad whose child is struggling to be understood at their school. Gen and Amy offer some advice for this parent on how to support their child at home. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir'
Parenting In Your 40's: The Exhaustion Is Real!
It's a fun and loose AMEN episode today, and since Amy just turned 40, her and Gen break down the unique exhaustion that comes with parenting in your fourth decade (and just existing as woman, full stop!) Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People
"Help! My Daughter's Dancing Making Me Uncomfortable!"
While we know that kids often just copy things they see on tv or in the media, sometimes that means that they can do things that are a little too...mature for their age. That's what a mum is struggling with this week, with her daughter's dancing, and wants to know the best way to handle it. Plus a fail that ended up with a hole in Amy's wall. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyon
"My Daughter Is Rude To Me In Front Of Her Friends, And I'm Sick Of It"
This week, it's Amy who has the parenting dilemma, and needs Gen's help! What do you do when your tween starts acting like a different person in front of their friends? And what happens when the FOMO moves into meltdown territory? Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Orde
"Help! My Child Is Jealous Of My New Baby"
While we all like to imagine our kids are going to be best friends, sibling jealousy is very normal and can be especially prevalent when a new baby enters the family. Today we hear from a mum whose eldest gets jealousy especially during feeding, and Gen and Amy have some sound advice. This episode is proudly brought to you by Haakaa — the award-winning maternity and baby brand trusted by fam
Parenting Imposter Syndrome Is A Real Thing
We talk a lot on Beyond The Chaos about how hard it is when it looks like everyone else has it together, while you feel like you're falling apart (even when we all know no one is perfect). On this episode we hear from a mum who is feeling imposter syndrome as a mum and health professional, and Gen and Amy break down this complicated and relatable feeling. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here:
The Number 1 Rule For Getting Your Child To Sleep
So many kids have a complicated relationship with sleep; everything from not wanting to sleep in their own bed, to not being tired at bedtime. We hear from a listener going through this problem with her 8 year old, and Gen has one rule to tackle it. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself
Thank F*** School Holidays Are Over
Gen and Amy are back in the studio for 2026! They reflect on the highs and lows of school holidays; which as we know can range from beautiful moments of bonding to breaking up screaming matches between siblings and counting down the days 'til they're back at school. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book
What Is The Right Age To Talk To Your Teen About Dating?
Talking about dating can feel like a loaded topic; but there comes a time that every parent needs to broach that topic with their teen. But the question is, what is the right age? And how do you have that conversation without both of you cringing? This week, Amy and Gen answer a listener question about exactly this. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of
Are Your Kids Old Enough to Go Out Unsupervised?
When is the right age to let your kid and their friends roam unsupervised? And what happens if you find out another parent has let your child do exactly that without asking you? On this week's episode Amy and Gen tackle this dilemma for a listener. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself I
Our Top 5 Tips For Getting Through Starting School
As we creep closer to school starting for 2026, your child might naturally be anxious. And we're guessing you are too! Gen has your back with 5 practical tips for kids starting school for the first time. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little People,
"My Child's Grandparent Calls Her Fat"
Grandparents....we love them, but sometimes they can say problematic things to our kids, often without even realising it. In this mini holiday episode, Amy and Gen discuss how to tackle this tricky problem. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Little Peop
Amy's Foolproof Guide To Surviving NYE With Kids
New Year's Eve used to mean dressing up, parties, cocktails, and midnight kisses. But these days, if you're anything like us, we're lucky to see 10pm without a headache from fighting kids and sugar crashes. So Amy has created a survival guide to get you through this 'magical' night. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order
Gen's Christmas Eve Meditation
Whoever said 'T'was the night before Christmas, and all through the house, not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse' clearly did not have kids. It's Xmas Eve, and it's probably chaos in your house, so Gen is here with a special Christmas meditation. You're welcome. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Gera
"My Child Is Suddenly Self-Conscious, What Can I Do?"
Welcome to the first in our summer mini episodes! We're not leaving you high and dry without us at any point this festive period, don't worry. This episode, we hear from a mum who's young child has suddenly become self-conscious, and wants to know what she can do to support them. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy
How To Explain Death To Your Child
Having a conversation with your child about someone special dying is one of the hardest talks you can have with them, and it can be tricky knowing how to navigate it. Recently, Gen had to have this conversation with her own kids about her mother's illness, and has some tips for navigating this difficult time. Since this episode was recorded, Gen's wonderful mum passed away. Vale, Marilyn. Leave yo
Siblings Are Meant To Fight - Here's Why
While it would be nice if siblings always got on with each other, we know that is generally not the case. In fact, sibling fights and rivalry can be one of the most stressful experiences as a parent. So what can we do to combat this? Gen and Amy not only have some advice, but can personally relate to this dilemma. Plus, Gen has a tip for finding out if your kid is stealing from you. Leave your que
We're Sick Of Being Shamed By Instagram Parenting Experts
Recently, we heard from a parent who was feeling overwhelmed by the amount of negative messaging from 'parent experts' around things like sleep training and the effect it's having on your baby. The truth is, everyone is trying their best, so Gen and Amy chat through why parenting advice is never one size fits all. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of Hi
How Do You Tell Your Kids To Put Down The Screen, When You're Also Addicted?
Kids and screens. We talk about it all the time on BTC because it's the issue that we often struggle with the most, as do our listeners. But is there actually anything we can do about it? Especially when we're often addicted ourselves. Gen and Amy chat through this complex problem, and actually hav a few ideas. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High
Why Your Kid's Tantrum Might Be Due To Them Being a 'DFK'
Do you have a kid who often gets dysregulated to the point of kicking, hitting or biting? Knowing how to stop behaviour is so tricky, but also knowing why it's happening is key. Today on BTC, Amy and Gen hear from a mum experiencing this, and Gen has some advice. Plus, wins and fails include a very embarrassing dacking, and a very full on school fair. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo
How Important Are Report Cards, Really?
Are we over-parenting our children these days? In an effort to protect their kids, many parents are trying to shield them from any negative experiences, which can potentially do more harm than good. On this week's AMEN episode, Gen brings in her old report cards and her and Amy discuss how much they really matter, and how we're all a bit guilty of over-parenting these days. Leave your question for
The Real Reason Your Child 'Prefers' The Other Parent
Parental preference is a real thing, and can be really tough on both sides of the fence. Today, Amy and Gen address a question from a listener who's child seems to really prefer his dad, and is feeling understandably sensitive about it. Plus, Gen has a win with her teenager, and Amy reminisces about dabbling in Mary Jane when she was younger. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm
The School Holidays Juggle
On this week's AMEN rant, it's the school holidays juggle. From finding things for kids to keep them occupied, too someone to look after them so you can leave the house, and then everything else involved in running a house. If you feel like you're struggling- you're not alone! Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here Order Amy Ge
How Dysregulation May Be Causing Your Kid To Act Out
We all know that good kids can act out or have trouble at school, and emotional dysregulation might be what is causing these issues. Today, Amy and Gen answer a question from a mum worried about her 6 year old, and provide some tips on supporting them through this tough time. Plus, an iPad win and the constant juggle of school holidays. Get your pack of High Low Buffalo cards here, and use the cod
High Low Buffalo: Gen's Exciting News
High Low Buffalo; it's a communication tool Gen has mentioned on the podcast many times to connect with your kid of any age. And now Gen has some exciting news: she's created her own High Low Buffalo conversation cards! This episode, Gen talks about why she created these cards, exactly how they can help your family dynamic and get your kids to open up, and Amy and Gen give the cards a spin! Get yo
The Highs And Lows Of Having A Clingy Child
This week on BTC, we hear from a mum who's daughter has turned up the clinginess to 100, but the reason behind a child not leaving you alone might surprise you. Gen has some tips for working through this with your clingy kid. Plus, does your partner say they're going to be home at a certain time, only to waltz in an hour late? You're not alone. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/bey
A Quick Rant About Parenting While Sick
Last week Amy had the flu and was sicker than she had ever been in her life...but the parenting overwhelm never stops. On this week's AMEN rant, Amy and Gen discuss parenting while being ill, partners stepping up (or not), and how you can prioritise self care. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'Li
How To Handle A Withdrawn Tween
It's pretty common that at some point, your tween might start withdrawing from things like family outings, meals and plans. But that doesn't mean it's not hard for parents, and the rest of the family. Today on Beyond The Chaos, Amy and Gen discuss a question from a listener struggling with exactly this. Plus, our wins and fails that, unsurprisingly, revolve around screens. Leave your question for
How To Explain Grief To A Child
While we never want our kids to go through something as hard as losing a pet or someone else special to them, how you guide you child through grief can help them build important skills and face a normal part of life. This week, Gen walks us through how to explain death to your kid and help them through tough times. Plus, the highs and lows of spending time away from your kids and the benefits to l
Dear Schools: Why. So. Many. Emails?!
On this week's AMEN rant, we have a bone to pick with school correspondence. On top of the 14 different apps you need, we're sick of the emails, Whatsapp messages, texts and newsletters, and reckon there has to be better way. Plus, Gen is undie-shamed in the gym. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book
My Daughter Is Assh*le To Me - Here's Why That's A Good Thing
If you have a tween or teen who is perfectly sweet one second and a raging jerk the next, you're not alone. Today we hear from a parent who is at her wit's end with her daughter's behaviour, but Gen is here to tell you why her that's actually not a bad thing... Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'L
"I Have 'Sneaky' Kid...Should I Be Worried?"
Stealing, swearing, lying...these are all things most kids will do at one point or another. But at what point should you be worried, and is there anything you can do to manage a 'sneaky' child? Plus, is it really a big deal if we let ChatGPT do some of the parenting sometimes? Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Ge
Dealing With Parental Overwhelm
This week on an AMEN episode of Beyond The Chaos (AMy and gEN, of course), we tackle to topic of parental overwhelm. With so much information out there aimed to help parents, how do we know what to listen to? And how do you stay kind to yourself when we all know, most parents are just trying their best? Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap
Everything You Need To Know About Breastfeeding
To celebrate Breastfeeding Awareness Month, Amy and Gen are joined by obstetrician Dr Hugh Porter and midwife and lactation specialist Megan Hangan to chat about everything to do with breastfeeding- the highs, the lows, and the sore nipples. This episode is proudly brought to you by Haakaa. August is Breastfeeding Awareness Month, and Haakaa’s all about supporting mums through every ste
Teaching Your Sensitive Child How To Lose
How do you teach your child that while winning feels great, it's also ok to lose? And how to teach them right and wrong if they're ultra sensitive? Gen and Amy tackle these tricky topics and more on today's episode. Plus, Gen's bike riding fail and Amy's little mini-me. Leave your question for Gen and Amy here: memo.fm/beyondthechaos Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir'
The Trick To Getting On The Same Parenting Page As Your Partner
Welcome back to Beyond The Chaos, where due to popular demand we're back to weekly episodes! Every few weeks, we'll be releasing episodes like this one that are a more casual chat between Amy and Gen! This week, they chat about getting on the same page as your parenting when it comes to your partner- easier said than done! Amy speaks about her own experiences while Gen has some sound advice. Email
"My Son Gets Stage Fright- But Only When I'm Around"
Do you find your child is excited for a big moment or performance, only to fall apart when they see you there to support them? It's way more common than you think. This episode, we hear from a mum experiencing this with her 6 year old, and Gen and Amy have some surprising advice. Plus, a (kind of gross) hack for bedtime nosebleeds from Amy. Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen and Amy HE
When Is The Right Time To Stand Up To Bullies?
Standing up to a bully picking on someone is not easy, even for grown ups, especially when you can just walk away. But when is the right time to step in, and how? Gen and Amy answer a question from a mum asking about this tricky topic. Plus, never ending school holidays and a hack for birthdays. Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen and Amy HERE Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourse
The Real Reason Your Kid Is Acting Out
If your child has ever acted out unexpectedly, it can be hard to know why and how to handle the situation. This week we hear from a parent in this situation and give them some gentle advice. Plus, spending quality time with your kids and Amy and Gen's highs and lows of the week. Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen and Amy HERE Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen M
The Craziest Reasons Our Kids Have Gotten Mad At Us
Driving them to school and trying to get them to drink water; just two of the things that have caused our kids to melt down at us recently. So we want to hear what 'terrible' things you've done recently to make your child furious at you? Plus, we hear from a parent whose child is struggling with basic things like getting dressed, and the answer might be in choice paralysis. This episode is brought
'Transition Overwhelm' May Be Causing Your Kid's Meltdown
Has your kid ever had a meltdown about going to school or daycare, and then had another meltdown when you've arrived to pick them up? Well 'transition overwhelm' might be to blame, and Gen has some very practical tips for mitigating it. Plus, we hear from a single mum who actually had a great mother's day! And Gen and Amy go through their weekly nails and fails. This episode is brought to you by A
BONUS: Our Unfiltered Thoughts On Mother's Day
On the weekend it was Mother's Day, but in some houses across the country, you wouldn't know it. Amy and Gen had to jump into the studio for an special unedited bonus episode about their dud Mother's Days, and why it's always on mums to take on the mental load. Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen and Amy HERE Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book 'L
Sensory Seeking Kids And How To Help Them
Most kids have some sensory habits, from twirling their hair to pinching their private parts. Today on the show, we hear from a mum who's daughter's habits are causing her to pull out her hair, and she wants to know if there's anything she can do. Plus, Amy has a sh*tty fail this week, and Gen's been influenced by Amy to buy some life changing boots. Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen
When Is The Right Time To Make Big Changes?
Your kid's life will be full of big changes; some out of their control like when they start school, but some are up to you to decide, like moving from a cot to a bed. So when is the right time to make these big decisions? We answer a question from a mum who is trying to figure this out. Plus, a solution for screen addiction, and Gen's PT win. Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen and Amy
⭐️ Beyond The Chaos ⭐️ Is Telling Lies Really A Big Deal?
Most kids like to make up stories at times, but how is the best way to react to their porky pies without shutting them down? Gen has some sound advice for a mum who has a very imaginative child. Plus, Amy's shoelace frustrations and Gen's weekend away....sans children! Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen and Amy HERE Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order Gen Muir's book
⭐️ Beyond The Chaos ⭐️ My Kids Are Just So Loud!
Most kids have trouble controlling their volume at times, but what do you do if yours are just way too loud! An overstimulated parent gets in touch with Gen and Amy to get some advice. Plus, Gen confesses she's been struggling with mum guilt, and Amy nails some solo parenting. Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen and Amy HERE Order Amy Gerard's book 'Strap Yourself In' HERE Order G
⭐️ Beyond The Chaos ⭐️ How Do I Handle Accidental Aggression In My Child?
Gen and Amy have spoken about kids hurting their siblings so many times on this podcast, but what if the aggression is accidental, and your child is trying their best to control it? Plus, Amy's win is an app that has changed her life (or at least her pantry) and Gen receives the unthinkable from her teenage son. Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen and Amy HERE Order Amy Gerard's b
⭐️ Beyond The Chaos ⭐️ My Daughter Is Being Picked On, What Do I Do?
Knowing your child is being picked on or bullied has to be one of the hardest parts of parenting, and so is knowing the right thing to tell your kid to do so they can stick up for themselves. Gen and Amy have some sound advice after being in similar positions. Plus, Gen's dog is addicted to carbs, Amy is off the booze, and we discuss screens and kids (again!). Email your voicemail parenting questi
⭐️ Beyond The Chaos ⭐️ My 3 Year Old Won't Stop Hurting My Baby
One of the most common questions we get at Beyond The Chaos is about older siblings hitting or hurting babies, but the reason why and how to stop it might surprise you. Plus, Gen has a rant about why long school holidays simply don't work, and the card deck that has revolutionised the labour imbalance in her household. Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen and Amy HERE Order Amy Gerard's
⭐️ Beyond The Chaos ⭐️ My Child Prefers Their Dad Over Me
On this podcast, we often talk about parental preference in regards to when your child is clinging to you, but today we have a dilemma from a mum who's kid only wants to be around their dad. So what do you do when dad's away? Plus we go through our wins and fails leading up to Christmas. This is the last episode of Beyond The Chaos for the year, so have a great holiday period and see you in 2025!
⭐️ Beyond The Chaos ⭐️ Can I Hug My Child If They're Throwing A Tantrum?
If your child was having a meltdown and wanted a cuddle, what would you do? With so much conflicting information out there, it can be hard to know. Gen and Amy answer a question from a mum who wants to know what to do, plus whether she needs to get on the same page as her husband about feeding her kids different meals. Email your voicemail parenting question to Gen and Amy HERE Order Amy Gerard's
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