That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan
A sex positive podcast hosted by sexologist Emily Duncan that provides a shame-free perspective on all things sex. Nothing is off bounds in this uncensored podcast, delving into juicy and taboo topics. The podcast aims to break down stigmas surrounding sex and provide tools for a liberating sexual experience. Disclaimer: the educational information does not replace professional or medical advice.
Episodes
194 Exploring your dominant energy in the bedroom with Amanda Dames - The Kink Consultant
In this episode, Emily talks with Amanda Dames, the Kink Consultant, about kink, dominance, and how to explore desires safely and authentically. They discuss: Amanda’s journey from working as a dominatrix to becoming a sexologist and coach Different dominant styles, including soft dom, caretaker, and disciplinarian Why dominance is a skill How to explore kink without pretending to be someon
193 I want to date women but I'm experiencing shame - Ask A Sexologist
Shame around queer desire does not disappear just because you want it to. If you were raised in the church and are now trying to explore dating women for the first time, this episode gives you a practical way to untangle what was taught to you from what you actually want. Emily, a sex and relationship therapist, answers a listener question from a woman in her early 30s who feels stuck between curi
192 You’re already orgasmic, how to remove the blocks to reach orgasm with Emma Swain
Orgasms are not a finish line - they’re a state of being, and most women/AFAB have been taught the wrong way to access them. Sex and relationship therapist Emily sits down with sensual embodiment coach Emma Swain to unpack why so many people feel blocked, disappointed, or “not orgasmic,” and how to move from pressure and performance into real, sustained pleasure. Emma challenges
191 Why women pay for sex - the experience of hiring an escort with Anna Grosman
Women are being told to wait, stay quiet, and keep their desires small, but what if pleasure could be something you choose on your own terms? Anna Grosman, founder of Her Confidant, shares how she built Australia’s only female-led agency offering curated intimate experiences for women and couples, and why more women than ever are quietly reclaiming intimacy, confidence, and connection. From
190 Dickfishing - Ask A Sexologist
Welcome to the first episode of Ask a Sexologist, where listeners send in their questions, stories and dilemmas, and Emily, a sex and relationship therapist, weighs in. Today's episode explores catfishing. Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Anonymous question
189 Why do people get turned on by humiliation? with Sexologist Lex Nyree
Emily is joined by sexologist and sex educator Lex Nyree to unpack humiliation kinks. They cover what counts as humiliation versus degradation, why some people are drawn to it, and how to explore it without crossing into harm. The conversation also goes deep on consent, aftercare, and why having this kink does not automatically mean someone has low self-esteem. Key topics Lex defines humiliation
188 Missionary sex shouldn’t be boring, if it is, you’re doing it wrong
In this episode, Emily explores how to spice up the missionary position. Missionary can get a bad rap, dismissed as boring or too vanilla, but it doesn't have to be. Emily shares 8 ways to bring more pleasure, connection and excitement into missionary, proving there's way more to this position than people give it credit for. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want
187 Why you keep dating the wrong people with Dr. Gillian O’Shea Brown
Why do we keep choosing the wrong partners — even when we know better? In this episode of That’s Orgasmic, Emily sits down with psychotherapist and professor Dr. Gillian O’Shea Brown to unpack the unconscious patterns that draw us toward emotionally unavailable relationships, familiar chaos, and unresolved wounds. Together, they explore the idea of an “erotic emotional map,
186 What makes someone good at sex? (It's not experience)
Think being good at sex comes from having lots of experience? Think again. In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the biggest myths about sex: that the more sex you have had, the better you'll be in bed. The truth is, great sex has everything to do with communication, curiosity, connection, and a willingness to learn. We'll explore:• Why sexual experience doesn't automatically make someone
185 Why do I like my sex toy more than partnered sex?
This episode explores the listener question, "I bought a toy and I'm honestly a little embarrassed about how much I like it more than partnered sex. Does that mean something's wrong?" Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sex
184 Stop approaching women like this
In this episode, Emily discusses a recent scary experience of a man asking for her number in public. Emily also discusses the different ways men have approached her in public, from the ok to the bad. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous questio
How to eat pussy - Queer edition with Jordana Ezra [REVISIT]
There is no new episode this week, instead, enjoy this revisit to episode 134 How to eat pussy. In this episode, I am joined by Jordana Ezra, a somatic sexologist specialising in LGBTIA+ sex. She is a bisexual lesbian, host of MOIST a sell-out queer speed dating event and founder of the pussy frequency a method devoted to women and non-binary coming out later in life. Emily and Jordana
182 How to have a terrible sex life
Emily a sex and relationship therapist, discusses the most common behaviours that contribute to a bad sex life...they're more common than you'd think. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast  
181 UPDATED - How to spice up masturbation: A Sex Therapist's top tips- Part Two
Apologies for the error in uploading the same episode for both part one and two of 'how to spice up masturbation: A Sex Therapist's top tips. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast
180 How to spice up masturbation: A Sex Therapist's top tips- Part one
This episode is part one of two episodes - How to spice up masturbation: A Sex Therapist's top tips Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSen
179 Daily practices to reconnect to your sexuality
Low desire? Disconnected from your body? Struggle to experience pleasure? This practical episode explores daily practices to connect to your sexuality. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podc
178 Why touch can disappear in relationships
This episode explores demand and non-demand intimacy. Emily explains what is happening when not only sex has decreased, but physical touch and intimacy have decreased too. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code: thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellness
177 How to initiate sex
Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Workbook Get your copy of The Art of Initiation bundle Ebook + Workbook Emotional Bank Account Podcast episode FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Well
176 Is your relationship is running on empty?
This episode explores the emotional bank account. A concept often discussed in therapy to determine the health of your relationship and how you can improve it. Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, qu
175 Why you are experiencing erectile difficulties
Overcome your erectile difficulties with my online self-paced course Overcoming Erectile Difficulties Program: How to obtain and maintain an erection Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook (How to initiate sex) FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call H
174 Five things I repeat as a Sex Therapist that you probably need to hear too
This episode explores 5 things Emily always says as a sex therapist to her clients during their therapy sessions. Get your copy of The Art of Initiation Ebook FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre See omnystudio.com
173 Exploring Kink and BDSM with Coby Baker
This episode features Coby Baker, a sexologist and devoted artist. Emily and Coby discussed: What is Kink and BDSM Development of kinks Common practices Difference between a kink and a fetish How to explore kink and BDSM safely Communication How to talk to your partner about a kink you want to explore Aftercare FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories t
172 How to overcome purity culture and sexual shame with Lauren Elise Rogers
This episode features Lauren Elise Rogers who is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach, celebrated for her warm and approachable style. Her holistic and embodied approach to education and coaching is deeply rooted in her own pain-to-purpose journey. Lauren brings an empathetic and non-judgmental approach, offering practical tools that empower her cl
171 Why people cheat and how to repair your relationship after an affair with Tarah and Ej Kerwin
This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They’re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are. We discuss: What is cheating Why do people cheat? Is an affair the symptom
170 The bedroom gap, Labiaplasty and Menopause with Dr Maria Sophocles
This podcast episode features Dr. Maria Sophocles, who has been a practicing gynecologist for 29 years and is an internationally respected expert in menopause and female sexual function. She is the founder of Women's Healthcare of Princeton, a progressive gynecology practice serving over 30,000 women in the U.S. Emily and Maria discuss: Menopause and why everyone needs to learn about it How Menop
169 ADHD and relationships with Niamh Mannion
This episode features Niamh Mannion the founder of My Friend In Sex Ed. Emily and Niamh discuss: ADHD How ADHD can have positive impacts on relationships Other ways ADHD could impact relationships Rejection sensitivity Oversharing How a neurotypical or non-ADHDer can support an ADHD partner FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thats
168 How dating rules are changing and is your ‘type’ right for you? with Nicole Colantoni
How dating rules are changing and is your ‘type’ right for you? with Nicole Colantoni This episode features Nicole Colantoni who is a dating coach, ehrmony Australia’s dating expert and podcast host of Love uncensored: the modern guide to dating and relationships. Emily and Nicole discussed: Dating rules How dating rules differ between generations Datin
167 Discover your erotic blueprint for better sex with Laurie Love
This episode features Laurie Love who is a Certified Erotic Blueprint™ and Intimacy Coach. She empowers individuals and couples to navigate the intricacies of intimacy through the 5 Erotic Blueprint™ types framework which helps us understand how we are wired for pleasure. Emily and Laurie discuss: Laurie's journey to become an intimacy coach What is the erotic blueprint? How do we dis
166 How to talk about sex and your desires with your partner with Laura Lee
This episode features Laura Lee who is a psychologist & sexologist with over 17 years of experience in clinical practice and coaching. She is the Director of Blue Space Psychology where she provides individual psychological and sexual therapy. In addition to clinical practice, Laura provides supervision, professional consultation and workshops to healthcare providers. She also offers online co
165 How society fails to support our cycles with Laura Federico and Morgan Miller
This episode features Laura Federico and Morgan Miller, the authors of The Cycle Book. Laura is a psychotherapist and certified sex and relationship therapist in private practice. Morgan is a certified professional midwife, lactation consultant, activist, and birth center founder in private practice. Emily, Laura and Morgan discuss: What can you track in your menstrual cycle? What are the
164 Rebuilding desire and connection in your relationship with Tarah and Ej Terwin
This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They’re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are. We discuss: Mismatched desire How to rebuild desire in your relationship N
163 The worlds largest penis with Matt Barr
In this episode, Emily is joined with Matt Barr who has gained notoriety as the man with the world's biggest penis (according to multiple independent medical studies, measuring him at over 36cm/14.5), a title he humorously embraces while shedding light on the complexities of his life. His journey into the public eye began with a Channel 4 documentary entitled My Massive C**k. In his upcoming memoi
162 Twenty five things I have learnt about sex as a Sexologist
Welcome to season 6 of That's Orgasmic! This episode is being released on Emily's 25th birthday, so what better way to celebrate than discussing 25 things Emily has learnt about sex as a sexologist. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://ww
161 How to have hard conversations, boundaries and anxiety with Dr. Nicole Cain - Part 2
In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof Emily and Nicole discuss: How to have a scary conversation with someone Boundaries How a lack of boundaries can impact anxiety relationship check-ins Flop and fracture response what to do if your partner is dissociating What to do if your partner is overstimula
160 Four steps to overcoming anxiety in your relationship with Dr. Nicole Cain - Part 1
In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof Emily and Nicole discuss: What is anxiety? Why do we experience anxiety? Difference between being diagnosed with anxiety and experiencing anxiety How does anxiety impact romantic relationships? Inner child work Communication between the brain and your body during
159 Why you may be experiencing a lack of pleasure during sex, exploring the connection to fascia with Anna Rahe
In this episode, Emily is joined by Anna Rahe. Anna is the founder of GST Body and a somatic expert with over 25 years of professional experience. Emily and Anna discuss: What is fascia/connective tissue system Why fascia is important and how it impacts our sex lives Sexual pain and fascia Why you may be experience a lack of pleasure during sex How to support the pelvic floor muscles Sexual trau
158 Who you date doesn't define your sexuality - honouring bisexuality with Mim Kempson [REVISIT]
This episode explores different ways that bisexual women in monogamous relationships can connect to their sexuality while respecting and honouring their partnership. Featuring Mim Kempson a dating and relationship coach. Emily and Mim discuss: What is a dating and relationship coach? When should you see a relationship coach? Biphobia Common bisexual myths How can a bisexual woman honour her sexu
157 Lost in love: Navigating identity loss in relationships and reclaiming your individuality
In this episode, Emily explores losing your sense of self while in a relationship and how you can reclaim your individuality. Emily explores six signs that you may be losing your sense of self and then provides six strategies to overcome this phenomenon. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at
156 Supporting your penis and erections after cancer Melissa Hadley Barret - part two
In this episode, Emily is joined by Melissa Hadley Barrett. Melissa Hadley Barret is a sexologist, nurse practitioner, podcast host, founder and clinical director of the Restorative Sexual Health Clinic and creator of programs such as the Penile Rehabilitation Program for Prostate Cancer and Peyronies program. All of Melissa’s programs go beyond addressing sexual well-being; they offer a solution
155 How to have a healthier penis, wonky willy’s and erectile difficulties Melissa Hadley Barrett - part one
In this episode, Emily is joined by Melissa Hadley Barrett. Melissa Hadley Barret is a sexologist, nurse practitioner, podcast host, founder and clinical director of the Restorative Sexual Health Clinic and creator of programs such as the Penile Rehabilitation Program for Prostate Cancer and Peyronies program. All of Melissa’s programs go beyond addressing sexual well-being; they offer a solution
154 Is it normal to never orgasm? Do women like get dick pics? Why does it hurt to have sex? How to talk about non-monogamy? Answering your questions part 2
In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions. Where does the line get drawn between respecting someone’s personal boundaries and expanding their sexual horizons? Do women like dick pics? Connection games for lovers What do I do if sex starts to feel dull? Why does it hurt when I have sex? Is it normal to have never orgasmed? How to bring up non-monogamy with a partner
153 How much sex should you have? Vibrator recommendations. Anal tips. Is porn bad? Your questions answered - part 1
In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions. My vibrator recommendations I want to try anal, but it always hurts, what can I do? How much sex do people have? Can you desensitise your nerves (clitoris) from using vibrators? Is porn bad? FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with
152 You don't need to suffer, the truth about menopause with Dr. Cathleen Brown
This episode features Dr. Cathleen Brown who is a board-certified OB/GYN from Philadelphia. Emily and Dr. Cat discuss: What is menopause? What is Perimenopause? Menopause myths Vaginal atrophy Sex and menopause How to support yourself to have a healthier menopause FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session
151 Cuckolding, what it is and how to it
In this episode Emily discusses Cuckolding. Topics include: What is cuckolding? Why do people engage in cuckolding? How to practice cuckolding How to talk to your partner about cuckolding Things to think about in terms of cuckolding FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexolo
150 Why disabled folk need sex workers
In this episode, Emily discusses NDIS minister Bill Shorten’s proposed changes in the NDIS to remove sex work. Emily discusses why this should not happen, the impact this would have on disabled people and why sex work should be a service that disabled people can access. This episode was posted early due to this being a current issue. Sign the petition: https://www.progressivetherapeutic.com.au/sex
149 So you want to increase your desire for sex?
In this episode Emily discusses what to first do if you want to increase your desire for sex. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily D
148 Having sex in your sleep AKA sexsomnia
Trigger warning this episode discusses sexual assault. In this episode, Emily discusses having sex in your sleep AKA sexsomnia, Emily breaks down what sexsomnia is and what it can look like. She shares stories of people who have experienced sexsomnia, what can cause sexsomnia and how to support someone who lives with sexsomnia. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions
147 Exhibitionism, thrusting techniques and embracing your inner slut or alpha male with Stace and Ty from Under The Sheets
This episode features partners Stace and Ty. Stace is an intimacy coach and Ty a health coach. They both want to take the taboo and intimidation out of sex. They want people to embrace sexploration and kinksploration to fulfill their sexual potential. They have a kink for being watched and Only Fans is their means to fulfill this on demand. Emily, Stace and Ty discuss: What is Under the Sheets
146 Navigating a sexless relationship with Irene Fehr
This episode features Irene Fehr, a Sex & Intimacy Coach who weaves together somatic sex coaching, mindfulness, and emotional communication work, Irene has developed and successfully applied her holistic Connection Sex approach with monogamous long-term couples struggling with a sexless marriage who come to her often as a last resort before divorce to turn things around towards deeper sexual i
145 Neurodivergent love languages, sensory needs during sex and sexuality dopamenus with Niamh Mannion
This episode feature Niamh Mannion who is a Developmental Educator and Sexologist who loves all things disability and sexuality. Emily and Niamh discuss: What is a developmental educator? What is neurodivergence? What are sensory needs? What is a sexuality sensory diet? What is a Sexuality Dopamenu? Emily and Niamh create a Sexuality Dopamenu Neurodivergent love langauges FOLLOW US on Instagram
144 Why you don't need a bigger penis
In this solo episode, Emily discusses why you don't need a bigger penis. Emily also shares tips for exploring pleasure and tips for overcoming body image concerns. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review
143 Living in hell within your own mind with Dana Da Silva
This episode featured Dana Da Silva who is a single mum of two based in Sydney, Australia. She's a part-time media adviser and an indie author with big dreams. She considers putting pen to paper to be an exquisite art, free therapy, and a form of meditation. The Shift is her debut book. Emily and Dana discuss: Dana’s experience with OCD Paedophilic OCD How to support somebody with OCD BDSM Is BDS
142 Borderline Personality Disorder, sex and relationships with Dr. Sarah Ashton
This episode features Dr. Sarah Ashton who is a registered psychologist (AHPRA), Board Approved Supervisor (AHPRA), training author, and the Director and Founder of SHIPS. Sarah created SHIPS because she saw a deep need for safe and inclusive spaces to talk about sex and connection. She sees liberating expression of sexuality from fear, isolation, and shame as her personal and professional purpose
141 Cam girls, sugar daddies and everything in between with Nova Hawthorne
In this episode, Emily is joined by Nova who is a live streamer, content creator and industry advocate. She owns a studio in Melbourne where she streams from, and also hosts other streamers. In 2023, she was voted Australia’s best porn newcomer. In 2024 she is nominated for a number of awards, including XBIZ Female Streamer of the Year and AAIA Industry Ambassador. Emily and Nova discuss: What is
140 Why you aren't getting matches on dating apps
In this episode Emily goes solo and discusses why people may not be getting matches on dating apps and what you can do about it. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discou
139 How to tell someone you have herpes with Bek Antonucci
In this episode, Emily is joined by Bek Antonucci who is a women’s emotional well-being and confidence coach, workshop and retreat facilitator and podcaster. Emily and Bek discuss: Bek's experience of being diagnosed with herpes Should people disclose their herpes status? When to disclose your herpes status How to disclose your herpes status How to deal with rejection Tips for getting back into d
138 Exploring your sexual expression with disability with Oliver Morton-Evans Part Two
In this episode, I am joined by Oliver Morton-Evans who is a sexuality and disability advocate and educator who is currently studying to become a certified sex coach for men with disabilities. Emily and Oliver discuss: What is sexual expression How to create your sexual expression Advice for support workers in talking about sex with your client FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comm
137 Navigating sex and dating with a disability with Oliver Morton-Evans Part One
In this episode, I am joined by Oliver Morton-Evans who is a sexuality and disability advocate and educator who is currently studying to become a certified sex coach for men with disabilities. Emily and Oliver discuss: Oliver’s experience of growing up in Australia and learning about sex with Spastic Quadriplegic Cerebral Palsy Oliver’s experience accessing masturbation and partnered sex Oliver’
136 How to stop recurring Thrush, Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) and UTIs with Adrienne Rommel
In this episode, I am joined by Adrienne Rommel also known as the Yoni Nutritionist who helps people get to the ROOT CAUSE of their chronic vaginal infections with holistic nutrition and wellness practices, so they can feel confident in their sex lives again! Emily and Adrienne discuss: What is vaginal health? What impacts vaginal health? How menstrual cycles affect vaginal health What is Bacteri
135 Jealousy isn't a bad emotion, navigating jealousy in your relationship with Dr. Joli Hamilton
In this episode, I am joined by Dr. Joli Hamilton who is a relationship coach for couples who colour outside the lines. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT certified sex educator. Joli also co-hosts the Playing With Fire podcast with her anchor partner, Ken. Emily and Joli discuss: What is jealousy What is envy Is jealousy bad? What jealousy can teach you
134 How to eat pussy - Queer edition with Jordana Ezra
In this episode, I am joined by Jordana Ezra, a somatic sexologist specialising in LGBTIA+ sex. She is a bisexual lesbian, host of MOIST a sell-out queer speed dating event and founder of the pussy frequency a method devoted to women and non-binary coming out later in life. Emily and Jordana discuss: Performance anxiety to eat pussy How to eat pussy How to practice pussy worshipping How to get t
133 Consensual non-consent and Obsessive Complusive Disorder and Sex with Reed Amber Thomas-Litmas
In this episode, I am joined by Reed Amber Litman-Thomas who is a UK sex educator, activist and co-host of an amazing podcast Come Curious. Trigger warning this episode discusses consensual non-consensual (CNC) and there are trigger words in this conversation. Emily and Reed discuss: What is OCD Intrusive thoughts How to let thoughts go How OCD impacts sex What consensual non-consent (CNC) is Wh
132 Double penetration, dirty talk and butt plugs with Silvia Saige
In this episode, I am joined by Silvia Saige. Silvia is a comedian, writer, social media personality, and podcast host of Sexy Funny Raw. Silvia aims to change how people view - not only women and sex - but the conversation about sex in general. Trigger warning this episode discusses childhood sexual abuse. It is discussed at the end of the episode when Emily asks the final question ‘What’s someth
131 Dealing with rejection
In today's episode Emily discusses rejection. What it is? Why we experience it? and how to deal with it. Emily focuses on romantic rejection from people we are dating. Emily gives 7 tips and pieces of advice on how to deal with rejection. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your co
130 How to pleasure a soft cock
In this episode, Emily discusses how to pleasure a flaccid penis in different ways. Join my sunroom ☀️ https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic Join via their website to get 30% off my Sunroom membership. FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emily
129 Body image & dating, sensate focus and getting to know your genitals with Nadia Maxwell (BONUS EPISODE from Good Enough Nutrition Podcast)
This is a bonus episode from the podcast Good Enough Nutrition by Nadia Maxwell. Good Enough Nutrition podcast is a podcast discussing nutrition, wellbeing, intuitive eating and body image with a sprinkle of all things periods and hormones. In this episode, we chat about: What is a Sexologist Why Emily became a Sexologist Why you should get to know your genitals How body image plays a role in da
128 How to get a bigger and harder erection. Discussing erectile health with Dr. Elliot Justin
This episode features Dr. Elliot Justin MD, FACEP, is the CEO and Founder of FirmTech, the first sex tech company dedicated to improving men's erectile fitness. Emily and Dr. Elliot discuss: What is erectile health? How to have a healthier erection The link between cardiovascular health and erections What is erectile dysfunction How to support erectile difficulties Benefits of a cocking What Fir
127 Burlesque: Navigating controversy, empowerment and wild performances with Evana De Lune
This episode features Evana De Lune, one of Australia's most sought-after Burlesque performers. Evana has over 20 years of dance experience covering jazz, tap, ballet, contemporary and commercial dance styles. As well as performing, Evana is a highly regarded burlesque teacher and mentor, who has shared her wealth of experience with students at Melbourne's, Maison Burlesque and now runs her own Bu
126 Cruising, lube, maintaining erections and queer sex with Drip founder Hugh Crothers
This episode features Hugh Crothers, who is the founder of drip, a sexual well-being brand he started in 2020 catering to people who are curious and diverse when it comes to sex. In this episode Emily and Hugh discuss: Why Hugh founded drip Where Hugh learnt about Queer sex as a gay man Shame attached to lube Erectile difficulties What makes sex orgasmic for Hugh What makes sex not so orgasmic fo
125 I walked in on my teenager having sex, what do I do? With Dr. Tina Schemer Sellers Part 2
This episode is part two of a two-part episode In this episode, Emily is joined with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers who is a licensed sex and gender feminist psychotherapist, best-selling author, researcher, emeriti professor, and media personality whose expertise spans sex therapy, spiritual intimacy, parenting, medicine, and social justice. Emily and Dr. Tina break down typical scenarios parents find
124 Talking to your kids about sex with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers Part 1
This episode is part one of a two-part episode. In this episode, Emily is joined with Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers who is a licensed sex and gender feminist psychotherapist, best-selling author, researcher, emeriti professor, and media personality whose expertise spans sex therapy, spiritual intimacy, parenting, medicine, and social justice. Emily and Dr. Tina discuss how to talk to your kids about s
123 My bladder fell into my vagina...living with a prolapse
Season 5 of That's Orgasmic is here. Today Emily shares a personal story on her experience with an Anterior Wall Prolapse AKA a Cystocele. Emily discusses: Her personal story What prolapses are and the different types Why you may develop a prolapse Sex and a prolapse Treatment How to reduce your risk of prolapse The reality of living with a prolapse at age 23 FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasm
122 From orgasmic music to orgasmic sex with Miss Kaninna
This episode features Miss Kannina who is a proud Yorta Yorta, Djadja Wurrung, Kalkadoon and Yirendali woman who has taken the Australian live music landscape by storm. Miss Kaninna has most recently been awarded as the Triple J Unearthed Music Artist of the Year. Her song ‘Blak Britney’ arrived in May to critical acclaim. An anti-establishment anthem written to amplify the voices of Blak women,
121 My vagina splits every time I have sex
In this episode Emily answers a listener's question 'My Vagina tears every time I have sex, what can I do?' FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emil
120 Embracing your hoe phase with Jenay
This episode features Jenay who is a certified relationship and life coach and host of her podcast ‘My Naked Mindset’ which is a sex and dating podcast. Emily and Jenay discuss: How Jenay became a relationship and life coach Jenay’s experience in her hoe phase Why Jenay went on 20 first dates in 2019 What Jenay learned from her dating experiences Jenay’s worst date How to find people to date Adv
119 Men, this is how to date with Celeste Moore
This episode features Celeste Moore an image consultant and dating coach who helps midlife men who have forgotten how to date by providing discreet dating and image consulting to improve their appearance, relationships and confidence. Emily and Celeste discuss: How a dating and image consultant can help you Celeste’s client demographic The biggest dating issues Celeste sees in men Is appearance i
118 Throatgasms, penis pumps and sexuality as we age with Susan Bratton
This episode features Susan Bratton who is an intimacy expert to millions. Emily and Susan discuss: What Susan’s experience with her sexuality has been like throughout her life Semen retention Ejaculatory choice Vaginal Atrophy and what you can do about it Throat orgasms Penis pump benefits How to use a penis pump How to help men not be concerned about performance How to care for genitals as we a
117 Breastmilk play and ADHD & BDSM with Alice Lovegood
This episode features Alice Lovegood who is a sex educator, life coach and spicy creator. Emily and Alice discuss: How Alice got into this field Alice’s favourite thing about creating spicy only fans content Alice’s favourite content to create Breastmilk play/erotic lactation/milk fetishism ADHD and BDSM How can kink support those who are neurodiverse What is subspace FOLLOW US on Instagram @tha
116 Can we orgasm without being touched? Exploring Tantra with Isiah McKimme
This episode features Isiah McKimme, a Couples Therapist, Sex Therapist, Sexologist and Coach who has been helping women and couples discover deeper intimacy and desire for over a decade. Emily and Isiah discuss: How Isiah got into her work What is Tantra What is Tantric sex How Tantra can benefit your sex life Practices to do to tap into your sexuality Tantric practices for patterned people Can
115 Mistakes we're making in our relationships with Samantha Manovski
This episode features Samantha Manovski who is a relationship and intimacy coach. Emily and Sam discuss: What Sam thinks of society’s current expectations of romantic relationships Common mistakes Sam sees people make in relationships How to have better conflict in relationships with the Harmony method Attachment styles Imposter syndrome as a coach/therapist FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic
