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Divorce and Separation

Divorce and Separation

Nikki Parkinson 97 Episodes Jul 9, 2026

Nikki Parkinson, a separation strategist and family law expert with 25 years of experience, hosts this podcast about divorce and separation. She shares her personal journey and professional insights, along with interviews with guests who have thrived after relationship breakdowns. The podcast aims to help listeners understand the Australian family law system, save legal fees, and find emotional strength. It is part of the Divorce and Separation Hub, which offers free resources.

Episodes

Divorce Story | Lindy Klim on Starting Over After Divorce, Motherhood & Finding Peace Jul 9, 2026 34:02 What happens when leaving feels impossible but staying is costing you your health? In this honest conversation, Lindy Klim shares her deeply personal journey through divorce, rebuilding her life, and raising four children while starting over from scratch. She opens up about recognizing the physical signs of stress, asking for help, leaving everything behind, and creating a peaceful life for hersel
Legal Side of Separation | Neurodiverse Children and Separation Jul 7, 2026 42:14 This is Episode 2 of The Legal Side of Separation with family lawyer Dani Zetzer from Respect Legal. In this episode I am talking to Dani about separation, parenting arrangements and neurodivergent children and why the usual conversations about "fairness", equal time and 50/50 care often do not meet the needs of children who need more structure, regulation and support. Dani brings both her legal e
Legal | Wills, Superannuation and Powers of Attorney After Divorce or Separation Jul 2, 2026 34:24 When you separate, there are some practical things that feel urgent - parenting arrangements, property settlement, bank accounts, where everyone is going to live. But there is another part of separation that many people overlook. Your estate planning. I'm joined by Mike Poynter, Principal Lawyer at MCP Legal, a partner firm of Simple Separation, to talk about the four key documents you need to re
Self Care & Support | Separation Shock: Why the Early Days of Separation Feel So Overwhelming Jun 25, 2026 21:15 In the early days of separation, it can feel like your whole life has changed faster than your mind and body can process. You might still be functioning on the outside working, parenting, replying to messages, paying bills — but inside, you feel like you are falling apart. In this solo episode I talk about what I call separation shock: the emotional, practical and mental overwhelm that can happen
Divorce Story | The Kind of Grief Men Are Expected to Carry Alone with Murf Jun 11, 2026 29:43 Today's Divorce Story is with Pete Murphy or Murf, as he's known to his friends. Murf's story is incredibly powerful. It is a story about losing so much of what once felt certain: his family life, his identity, his sense of stability, and at times, his hope. But it is also a story about what can happen when people show up, when support is offered in a way that can actually be received, and when a
Legal Side of Separation | Should I stay or should I go? with Danielle Zetzer Jun 2, 2026 39:40 One of the hardest questions you'll ever ask yourself isn't about property settlement, parenting arrangements or court. It's much earlier than that. Should I stay or should I go? In this first episode of our brand new series, The Legal Side of Separation, I'm joined by family lawyer Dani Zetzer from Respect Legal to explore the stage of separation that often gets overlooked the period where you're
Understanding Mediation: A Pathway to Respectful Separation May 28, 2026 28:10 In this episode, I talk about mediation (family dispute resolution) and why it isn't automatically the right first step for every couple. I'm joined by Christina Salvo, CEO and founder of Simple Separation, who explains mediation as a voluntary, structured process led by an impartial mediator to help separating couples reach agreements about parenting and property and, where possible, avoid the st
Self Care & Support | Separated But Still Living Together May 13, 2026 24:43 What happens when your relationship has ended, but neither of you can move out? This is something I am seeing more and more across Australia. Separation no longer always looks like one person packing a bag and moving into a new home. With the cost of living, rental shortages, mortgage pressure, children, leases, school zones and financial stress, many people are finding themselves separated but st
Self Care & Support | Protecting Your Mental Health During Divorce: Practical Tips and Strategies Apr 22, 2026 35:20 I am welcoming back Psychologist Ben Schiller to answer listener questions about mental health during and after divorce or separation. We discuss how to choose the right therapist, recognise when therapy is needed, and manage the emotional roller coaster that often accompanies a breakup. Ben shares practical strategies for protecting mental health, the importance of social connections, and how to
Self Care & Support | Finding Your Way Through Living Loss: Practical Steps for the Early Days of Separation Apr 15, 2026 17:14 This episode delves into the concept of "living loss," a term encountered in Dr. Lucy Hone's book, How Will I Ever Get Through This. I share insights on how separation and divorce can feel like a profound loss, even when life continues around you. I discuss the emotional and practical challenges that arise during this difficult time, emphasising that the grief experienced is not just about the en
Legal | From Power Imbalance to Practical Agreement: Inside the Mediation Room Apr 1, 2026 33:06 I'm back with Gerard Rees from Simple Separation for part two of our conversation. In Episode 84, we spoke about superannuation what I sometimes call the hidden asset. In this episode, we're talking about something I hear from clients all the time: "I just want to be heard." But what does that actually mean in mediation? And more importantly how do you make sure your voice is heard without the roo
What Happens to Men After the Relationship Ends with Dr Eran Magen Mar 18, 2026 41:34 This episode includes discussion around mental health, emotional distress, and suicide risk, particularly for men navigating separation and divorce. Please listen in a way that feels safe for you. If you need support, reach out to someone you trust or a qualified professional. In this episode I am joined by Dr Eran Magen, Yale Pyschologist and Founder DivorcingDads.org. In this episode, we talk ab

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