The Better Bator Podcast
A podcast discussing a man's most enjoyable solo pleasure. Melbourne-based erotic author Liam Williams Sean discusses the issues, opinions and experiences associated with male masturbation. There'll be some serious discussion, some fun topics and some conversation starters. Connect with Liam to join the conversation on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.
Episodes
How I Got A Group Birthday Bate Going
So yesterday was my birthday. It was also International Masturbation Day, a part of Masturbation Month every May. So I tried to organise something special to celebrate. Here's a bit of an outline about the group bate I organised last night.Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material. Looking to connect with our Bator
Masturbation Month: A History
It’s the middle of May and we all know it’s masturbation month. If you don’t, now you do. Here's a deep dive into the history of a month we all enjoy celebrating.Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material. Liam Williams' other project is his gay erotic fiction. He's been writing for years and releasing those stories
The Bator Podcast Is Back!
After a hiatus I'm excited to bring back the bator podcast. Now with a new title and a new outlook!Liam Williams' other project is his gay erotic fiction. He's been writing for years and releasing those stories as podcast episodes since 2021. Check out the link to listen to some of his stories. Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early acce
I Didn't Wank For A Week ... I didn't miss it
A discussion of my batorhood, my recent thinking around it, and what's happening next. Mentioned in this episode:Patreon Shout Out August and SeptemberJust wanted to say a quick thanks to a few patrons. Thanks to Sean, Blake, Alex, Yitz and Bryce. If you'd like to offer your support hit the link.Fleshjack QuickshotI recently tried out the Fleshjack Quickshot for the first time and I love it. I can
Interview with David Ledain
David Ledain is a UK-based author, writing non-fiction for gay males, based on his experiences and research. The first in his Hot Little Gay Book series focuses on masturbation and we had a great chat about the act, the changes in social expectations and the book itself. If you'd like to grab a copy of the book check out the link below. If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get
Wynward H Oliver, Author of HomoWork
Interviews are back on the slate for 2024 and my first subject is Wynward H Oliver author of HomoWork. I found Wynward and his book through his Twitter/X account and the book grabbed me straight away as an open and honest approach to the memoir of a man self-described as a compulsive bator. We talk about everything from poppers to labels, as well as how he went about writing such a funny and engag
Make Advice Work For You
Another Bate Coach episode from Liam, talking more about how to take advice. Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work click the link. Newsletter Got a product or service that
Bator Advice - Take It With A Grain Of Salt
My first solo advice episode for 2024 features advice about advice. Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material. Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter an
What's Coming In 2024 for Proud Bators?
Another step up in 2024 for Liam Williams and the Proud Bators project. Hear all about it in the first episode of the year. Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material. Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club
2023 Bate Stats
So I kept my bate stats for 2023, as I have done for the last couple of years. Here's the summary (stat nerd alert!). I'm putting together a group of bators who are keen to track their stats in 2024. If you're keen click the link to start the sign-up process. I hope you enjoyed your bating in 2023, thanks for making us even a small part of it. There are big things coming in 2024, so make sure you'
What Is Edging?
Edging is a pretty common term in the bator community. We’ve talked about it on plenty of podcast episodes, but I’ll take a bit of a deeper dive into it in this episode. What it is, the reasons people do it and the benefits of it. I’ll also throw in a couple of tips towards the end.Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off y
Talking With Your Mates
A topic that comes up a lot when I chat to bators, particularly those newer to accepting their batehood is the idea of being able to talk with your mates about it, outside the bate mates that you may already have. In this episode I share some tips and insight into how I've built up some mates to chat with. Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon fo
The Master Bator Convention
Liam chats with Jared, the Proud Bator behind the Master Bator Convention being hosted in Pittsburgh this August. It's shaping up to be a great event. There's still plenty of tickets available. Check out all the info on the website.Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material. Got a product or service that you'd
S4 E8 - Masturbation Month: Some History
It's Masturbation Month again! So here's a little background on our annual bator celebration.bator coaching survey social club Mentioned in this episode:Naughty Forty! Out Now!My first erotic novel is out now!Naughty FortyCaptivate Support
S4 E6 - A Better Bator Community
Here's the next Proud Bators Podcast episode. A bit of a chat about building a better bator community. Let me know what you think. bator coaching survey Mentioned in this episode:Captivate SupportNaughty Forty! Out Now!My first erotic novel is out now!Naughty Forty
S4 - E4 - More Isn't Always Better
This might not be a popular opinion where bating is concerned but I'm out here saying that being a better bator doesn't have to just mean jerking it more.I'd love to hear what you think of your bate lifestyle balance at the moment. The poll to let me know is here. bator coaching survey social club Fleshjack Mentioned in this episode:Captivate SupportNaughty Forty! Out Now!My first erotic nove
S4, E2 - Liam asks, "What Kind of Bator Are You?"
This episode is a new format for 2023. Liam's getting back to the solo episodes. Once a month he'll be talking you through a particular topic, often related to a part of his Better Bator Coaching Program. First up is the important question: What Kind of Bator Are You?Once you've listened to the episode I'd love to know what type you are, the poll is here.If you're not sure which type then head ove
Bator Profile Interview #4 - 'LondonBateBro'
The next interview in the Bator Profile series is LondonBateBro - that's his BateWorld profile if you want to hit him up.He's new to the bator lifestyle and it was a great chat. It's been great hearing from different guys about their different bate lives. If you're a Proud Bator and you'd like to chat on the podcast, get in touch via email.To connect with Liam visit the website.Thanks for lis
Welcome To The New Format!
We're welcoming Sean onto the microphone for our new and (hopefully) improved Proud Bators Anonymous podcast. In this episode we explain the new format, chat about a new technique and a bit of masturbation-related history. We hope you enjoy it.The video Sean used as a guide for his tip of the week is here. The article Liam referred to is here. As always get in touch with Liam through his website.
An Announcement!
PBA is back!There's something exciting coming soon!To connect with Liam visit the website.Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material. If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work click the link. Newsletter Got a product or service that you'd lik
Bator Profile Interview #2 - "Michael"
I had a great chat with Michael about some of his bate experiences. It's been great hearing from different guys about their different bate lives. If you're a Proud Bator and think you'd like to tell your story on the podcast, get in touch with me on the social. My socials are: Facebook, Insta, TwitterLooking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat
Bate Terminology
Finally! Another Bator podcast ep. Got any other terms you'd like me to chat about? Let me know.Unfortunately the Facebook group referred to in the podcast is no longer active. Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podc
Tips For Talking With Friends
I've had a few bators chat to me recently saying they wish they could talk like we do in the now-defunct Facebook group with their friends in real life. So here's a couple of tips for how you might make that more of a reality. Got any more tips? Comment below or DM me on my socials or through my website.Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to ch
Bator Profile Interview #1 - BatorBear80
This is exciting! My first ever PBA interview. BatorBear80 slid into my DMs after I put the call out for guys willing to chat about their bator life and this was a great interview to start with. I'm keen to have many more chats with him, both on and off the pod. BatorBear80 is his BateWorld profile if you want to hit him up for your own chats. If you're a Proud Bator and think you'd like to tell y
My First Wank Toy!
Here's a little bit about my first wank toy.It was a Fleshlight Ice and I loved it. Unfortunately the Facebook Group mentioned in this podcast is no longer active. Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podca
My DMs are open!
Just a quick note and a quick call out. I'm planning a lot of PBA content for 2022 and I want to hear from you, the listeners, about what you'd like me to include this year. InstaFacebookTwitterWebsiteGay Erotica PodcastLooking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club Thanks for listening to the Bet
2021's Bate Data
I kept track of my bating in 2021 with a big nerdy spreadsheet. Wanna hear how I did?InstaFacebookTwitterWebsiteGay Erotica PodcastLooking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' newsletter and get updates on the podcast, his writing and his bator work cli
Teen Bating Life
I've been wanking 'like a teenager' again recently and it made me a little nostalgic for the old days. What do you remember? What do you miss? Join the chat on my socials or in the PBA Facebook group.Unfortunately the Facebook group mentioned in this episode is no longer active. Jump in the Discord instead.Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to
No Nut November
I'm definitely not doing NNN. Are you or have you ever done it? Let me know on my socials or in the Discord server.Unfortunately the Facebook group mentioned in this episode is no longer active. Jump in the Discord instead.Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club If you'd like to sign up to
Proud Bators Anonymous Announcement
Here's another update! I've changed the title to line this podcast up with the Facebook group and Discord server that I started. I hope you've enjoyed the podcast so far and enjoy Proud Bators Anonymous. Unfortunately the Facebook Group mentioned in this episode is no longer active due to violations of community standards. Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club,
Bating Goals
Finally! I'm back! Sorry it's been so long. I've still been bating and I'm determined to get back in touch with you all. I've set myself some bating goals recently. Here's a little snippet of how that week went. Thanks for joining me for another episode of The Bator Life. If you enjoy the podcast make sure you hit subscribe and leave a rating and review.If you'd like to sign up to Liam Williams' n
Post Nut Clarity
Liam discusses the idea of Post Nut Clarity. Does it exist? Is it good or bad?The article he references from metro.co.uk is here.The Thrillist article is here.Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material. Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show of
Creating Your Bate Space
Liam Williams discusses the creating of his bate space and some tips on creating yours. If you enjoy the podcast make sure you hit subscribe and leave a rating and review.Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material. Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat abou
Bator Related Injuries
Liam shares a couple of stories of his bator related injuries and a couple most of us have faced. He also shares a story of one of the worst injuries he's heard of, a little gruesome but worth a listen.If you've got an injury story you want to share, hit Liam up on the socials. Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus
A Sad Second Place
Liam discusses the idea that masturbation sits in the sad, second place behind 'real' sex. If you enjoy the podcast make sure you hit subscribe and leave a rating and review.Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material. Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great pla
Why I Started The Bator Life Podcast
A little bit more intro. The three main reasons why the Bator Life Podcast started. If you enjoy the podcast make sure you hit subscribe and leave a rating and review.Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating. social club Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast,
My First Wank
Liam reveals the story of his 'first time' in the solo sexual arena. If you enjoy the podcast make sure you hit subscribe and leave a rating and review.Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material. Got a product or service that you'd like to promote to our audience of proud bators? Get in touch by emailing
Introduction
Welcome to The Bator Life podcast. This is the introductory episode where you get to meet Liam Williams, erotic author and proud bator. Thanks for listening to the Better Bator podcast. To support the podcast, head to Patreon for early access and bonus material. Looking to connect with our Bators? Jump into the Proud Bators social club, a great place to chat about or show off your love of bating.
