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Mental Work

Mental Work

Bronwyn Milkins 213 Episodes Nov 4, 2026

Mental Work is a podcast about working in mental health, with a focus on early-career psychologists. Hosted by psychologist Dr Bronwyn Milkins, it covers topics relevant to professionals in the field.

Episodes

Post-separation abuse: How to support clients after they leave (with Krasi Kirova)
Post-separation abuse: How to support clients after they leave (with Krasi Kirova) Nov 4, 2026 2381 Bron is joined by Krasi Kirova (Clinical psychologist) to chat about post-separation abuse. Krasi explains how coercive control can continue through mediation, property settlement, and family court, why abusers can appear more credible than the people they harm, and how to support clients in therapy after they’ve separated. They chat about:๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿฝ Why coercive control predicts post-separation abu
Working with affairs and betrayal in therapy (with Marie Vakakis)
Working with affairs and betrayal in therapy (with Marie Vakakis) Oct 28, 2026 2784 Bron is joined by Marie Vakakis (Mental Health Social Worker, Couple and Family Therapist) to unpack how to work with affairs and betrayal in therapy. Using hypothetical cases, Marie walks through what to do when an individual client discloses an affair, and how to support couples after an affair is discovered. They chat about:๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿฝ Affairs as “turning away” from a relationship, and how t
Compassionate to clients, harsh on ourselves: Exploring the therapist double-standard (with Matthew Jackson)
Compassionate to clients, harsh on ourselves: Exploring the therapist double-standard (with Matthew Jackson) Oct 21, 2026 2133 Bron is joined by Matthew Jackson (Psychologist and Board-Approved Supervisor) to unpack why so many psychologists can be deeply compassionate towards clients but harshly critical towards themselves. Matt reflects openly on how his upbringing, attachment and his own therapy have shaped his relationship with self-compassion, and Bron discusses how she is is at the start of her own self-compassion j
Beyond the DSM: Intro to the Psychodynamic Diagnostic Manual (with Claire Trevitt)
Beyond the DSM: Intro to the Psychodynamic Diagnostic Manual (with Claire Trevitt) Oct 14, 2026 2401 Bron is joined by Claire Trevitt (Psychologist) to explore the Psychodynamic Diagnostic Manual (PDM), which is one diagnostic alternative to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (the DSM). Claire explains how the PDM uses the same diagnostic categories as the DSM but adds depth around personality and subjective experience, which can give mental health workers a different perspectives on their cli
Young kids and a psychology career? Tips from a psychologist and mum of five (with Fiona Mann)
Young kids and a psychology career? Tips from a psychologist and mum of five (with Fiona Mann) Oct 7, 2026 1800 Bron is joined by Fiona Mann (Clinical Psychologist and Board-Approved Supervisor) to chat about balancing parenting young children with building a career in psychology. Fiona shares how she fell pregnant halfway through her clinical Masters, worked through her registrar program with twins on the way, and now works in a NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit), plus what she has learnt about flexibilit
Neurodiversity-affirming therapy for ADHD: Practical tips for psychologists (with Jordan Turner)
Neurodiversity-affirming therapy for ADHD: Practical tips for psychologists (with Jordan Turner) Sep 30, 2026 3725 Bron is joined by Jordan Turner (Educational and Developmental Psychologist) to unpack how to work well with clients who have ADHD. Both are ADHDers themselves and passionate about delivering neurodiversity-affirming, helpful therapy for ADHD clients. They chat about:๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿฝ What ADHD is, why the DSM criteria only tell part of the story, and where executive functioning fits๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป Assessment pathways, and h
Psychologist myths and facts: Do we have favourite clients? Is the therapeutic relationship enough? (with Matthew Jackson)
Psychologist myths and facts: Do we have favourite clients? Is the therapeutic relationship enough? (with Matthew Jackson) Sep 23, 2026 3637 Bron is joined by Matthew Jackson (Psychologist) to unpack psychologist myths and facts, quickfire style. Bron presents the myths (which Matthew has not heard before!) and Matthew weighs in, from whether therapists secretly judge clients to whether you can only take clients as far as you've gone yourself. They chat about:๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿฝ Judging clients and having favourite clients๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป Does charging a fee for the
Working well with couples who stonewall, withdraw, and shut down (with Marie Vakakis)
Working well with couples who stonewall, withdraw, and shut down (with Marie Vakakis) Sep 16, 2026 2896 Bron is joined by Marie Vakakis (Mental Health Social Worker and couples therapist) to chat about working with couples who stonewall, withdraw, and shut down. Marie unpacks the Gottman Method's "Four Horsemen" and shares exactly what to say and do when a couple's session starts to unravel. I found the episode really helpful for individual work, too! They chat about:๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿฝ The Four Horsemen: Criticism,
Understanding and identifying coercive control (with Krasi Kirova)
Understanding and identifying coercive control (with Krasi Kirova) Sep 9, 2026 2499 Bron is joined by Krasi Kirova (Clinical Psychologist) to chat about identifying coercive control in the therapy room. Krasi shares her own '3Ds' framework, built from years of clinical work, to help clinicians name abuse that doesn't always look obvious. They chat about:๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿฝ Krasi's '3Ds' framework: Disrespect, Disempowerment and Distortion๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป Why coercive control is so often missed by psychologists
Decolonising your practice: Small steps toward anti-oppressive therapy (with Mish Kumar-Jonson)
Decolonising your practice: Small steps toward anti-oppressive therapy (with Mish Kumar-Jonson) Sep 2, 2026 2540 Bron is joined by Mish Kumar-Jonson (Mental Health Social Worker and Chair of the Iceberg Foundation) about bringing anti-oppressive and anti-colonial practice into therapy. Mish shares how their own experience of migration and community shaped a lifelong commitment to supporting LGBTIQASBP+, neurodivergent, and BIPOC communities, and supporting mental health practitioners to unlearn colonial norm
What does a school psychologist do? (with Renae Martelli)
What does a school psychologist do? (with Renae Martelli) Aug 26, 2026 2278 Bron is joined by Renae Martelli (psychologist, Board-approved supervisor, and former school psychologist) to unpack what school psychology really involves. Renae shares how the role differs from private practice, why the work is more varied than most people expect, and how to figure out if being a school psychologist is for you.  They chat about:๐Ÿ‘‰ What a typical school psychologist's day act
What are "core needs" and why they matter in therapy (with Amy Howell)
What are "core needs" and why they matter in therapy (with Amy Howell) Aug 19, 2026 2036 Bron is joined by Amy Howell (Accredited Mental Health Social Worker, Co-Founder of Centre Self Collective) to unpack what our core psychological needs actually are and why they matter so much in clinical work. Amy shares how unmet needs in childhood shape attachment styles, coping patterns, and the schemas we carry into adulthood, and why acknowledging this isn't about parent-blaming. They chat a

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